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Thursday, November 10, 2022

SPOTLIGHT ON AARON CABOTT JONES- Orion Baral Reporting…

 Aaron Cabott Jones is a singer, songwriter, and guitarist with decades of experience writing his vast catalog of music. Beginning with his debut album Kaleidoscopic and The adventure of Aaron Cabott Jones at the famed Abby Road Studios where he created the first installment of his life’s work. His 10-track collection has a mix of psychedelic pop very reminiscent of the Beatles. In addition to a combination of new wave, brawny classic rock, and romantic orchestral pop. Aaron has a wide range of sounds that meshes well with his unique style.  Aside from his musical talent, at venues across the grid, his music will be featured in the upcoming feature film shot in Second Life called The Redemption of Donna Asher.

SLE: Thank you for sitting with us, it’s a pleasure to have you here. Let our readers know a bit about you, your history, your music history, etc.

Aaron:  I was born in Dreux, France. My dad was in the U.S. Air Force (late 50's), and a major fan of music. So, that naturally carried over to me and I grew up listening to all the big band stuff he listened to. So before the Beatles, Derrick And The Dominoes, Hendrix, and all that I was listening to Arty Shaw, Dorsey Brothers, Louis Armstrong, and other bands of that era. 

Three things got me into music. My buddy was killed in a train/car crash and his parents gave me his guitar. The other was my older brother bringing home LPs of The Beatles, Crosby Still, and Nash... Hendrix, Joplin... all of this after we moved Stateside.

I would go hang out with the DJs at WTOD in Toledo Ohio where we lived. They'd buy me Mcdonald's if I rode my bike to buy them lunch. One day I was taking the trash out and I opened the dumpster and there were all these 45 records. I forgot all about the trash and dove into this pile of records and brought home Beatles, Hendrix, Sly, And The Family Stone... Donavan... more Motown than you can imagine. You name it. That was before music was segregated. You could hear everything on one station. So, I took the records home and practiced the drums (my first instrument) by listening to them.

SLE: Neat story! There is no shame in dumpster diving. Look where it got you. Lol Anyway, everyone is affected by music in many ways. Can you describe what music means to you and how it affects you?

Aaron: I'm more affected by music when I'm singing and playing. Even more so when I'm writing a song. There's a certain high you get when you've written a song that feels right. And then others hear it and like it too.  American Jesus, Longing, Wish Upon a Starfish  are songs I think are particularly special. Wish upon a starfish is from my album The Adventures Of Aaron Cabott Jones. But songwriting is very therapeutic for me. I'm sure I'm not alone in that opinion. 

 

SLE:  We can certainly relate to that euphoric feeling when writing and sharing it with others. How long have you been performing in Second Life, but more importantly what drew you to Second life?

Aaron: Believe it or not, you're the first person that asked me that... It will be five years on February 24th, 2023. I originally came here to make a movie. The film is what I do outside of here. I heard about SL and checked it out. I saw the potential for experimental animation and already had a story in mind. 

Then I heard about the music scene here and checked that out for obvious reasons. So I started going to shows and asking questions and digging around to find out how I could start playing venues. And you wouldn't believe how hard it was to get help. No one would tell me anything. (LOL)... And no venue owner was interested in me unless I had a manager and or a following.

 

So, I thought well so much for the land of fantasy... this is exactly like real life....  (laughs).  Then I saw this event listed for an OPEN MIC... I don't remember the name of the venue. But I went to see who was playing there. This woman approached me ... Kandy Summerwind, and asked me if I was gonna sing... I told her what I wanted to do... She said, "I know a manager... His name is Bad Setner (badone)".  I said well... Is that a good thing?

 

Long story short... He took me on and we worked together hard and NONE STOP on the grid for 3.5 years. He'd already been at it for ten years. He just retired from managing about a year and a half ago. We were a good team. He knew everyone and he helped me get going. By the time Bad left, we were averaging 30 shows a month. 

 

Playing the grid is its own grind. And you earn your audience... 


SLE: You are a busy one in the realm of creativity. One question that I ask all musicians I interview is. When in the shower all alone what is your go-to belting out at the top of your lungs song? Embarrassing or not, ok if embarrassing it is better :)


Aaron: The Sound of Music... And I twirl around as Julie Andrews did on that grassy plane Dangerous to do if you're in the shower).  You know the line ... I think it's a rap song now... "the hills are alive and it's pretty frightening"



SLE: LOL We never would have guessed that. Please be careful. A spill in the shower is not very becoming.  Do you play any instruments or just sing to tracks?

Aaron: Yes. I'm pretty shy about playing instruments at shows but I do break out my strat once in a while. I play guitar, bass, and a little piano... A tiny thing I've had since birth... Honestly, I do play some piano. I have to work out the parts though... I can't just sit down and whale away. 

 

I'd like to add more live guitars in the future.


SLE: That’s a great idea. I think a lot of concert-goers like instruments being used over tracks. Tell us, what do you find different when performing live in front of an audience and then performing in your Avatar form in front of other Avatars?

Aaron: That's a good question.  For me, the connection is more immediate in SL. I love that you can chat right off with fans and thank them. Even make a new friend! People are there because they love music and love what you're doing.  Playing live in RL is a roll of the dice. Your music might as well be wallpaper. People aren't there to hear what you're doing or your interpretation of a song. They're there for the beer and food. Which is fine. But I love playing in SL far better.

I loved playing clubs in the '70s... I went back to the clubs in the late 90s and hated it. there was a sweet spot in the 70s for me and I was there at the right time (Toledo Ohio).  

SLE: You have been in the music scene for a few years and have probably seen a lot of things. If you can change one thing about the music scene in Second Life, what would it be and why?

Aaron: Honestly I can't think of anything I would change. Here's why.  The venue owners that Bring live music to the grid are doing it because they are genuine music lovers. Because of them, I get to do something I love! There is nothing to change about that. The people that want to do it for monetary gain or want to take advantage of performers are going to wash out.

So the community kind of monitors itself and self-corrects. I've heard some horror stories about how performers were abused. I have experienced very few of those situations. 


SLE: How can people get you booked to play at their venues?


Aaron: Contact my manager at: ~ KM Management ~ Kaysie Michigan

CALLING CARD: Kaysie Michigan in SL


SLE: Is there anything that we have not covered that you would like our readers to know about you, your music, and your thoughts?

 

I am particularly grateful for all the time people have taken to come to my shows in SL over the last 5 years!  It means so much to see people I've known since I started still coming to see me!  THANK YOU!

Aaron: I'm doing the music for a feature film that was shot here in SL.  IMDB The Redemption of Donna Asher

I'll be having some new singles out before the end of the year so keep an eye out for those!

 

But mostly, I want to thank you for inviting me to come and talk with you!  I appreciate the opportunity!

Additional Information:

www.aarondcabottjones.com

 

Join Aaron Cabott Jones - FAN GROUP- secondlife:///app/group/4ed05586-058b-424a-69ab-78b1eaf57dd1/about

Calendar:  https://calendar.google.com/calendar/embed?src=v7pr4r0uueelj9oboe4mcb9shk@group.calendar.google.com&ctz=America/Los_Angeles 

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/album/1zRl36QY9JJQkl0kuT5R9I?si=UFtnLCaRRfaLzlAutGSG1Q 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Aaron-Cabott-Jones-SL-400174190422318/ 

YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLxo50a_QUmtHUC8wZqks53h2l89X7ssKQ 

Booking Info:  Contact  Kaysie Michigan



GeekSpeak subject for 12th November at noon SLT: How will YOU live in the near future?

 


What will your life be like in 5 years, 10 years, 20 years?  Will you own a car or use a robotaxi?  Will you live in a car because it is cheaper than a house and technology will make it very comfortable?  Or maybe in a house that can transform into a car? 

10 years ago no one would think of owning more than one computer.  10 years from now, will you own several robots?  Will you have a robot pet that will double as a house alarm?  Or a robot child?  Will you still need a job?  Maybe all jobs will be taken by robots.

Things can change really fast.  Remember that 15 years ago nobody had even heard of a smartphone.  Come to GeekSpeak at noon SLT on Saturday to discuss your future.  Bring your friends and your robot pets!

IM Vulcan Viper, who teaches a meditation class every Wednesday in the GeekSpeak auditorium, if you have ideas for new subjects.

 

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Danmu/143/127/51

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE: Grand Opening of BloodShadow on November 13th at 12pm SLT

 



Sunday, November 13th The Grand Opening of BloodShadow A Gothic Sanctuary & Community, Our New Adult, Inclusive Hangout. Join us on Sunday and help us celebrate the grand opening of our new sim. We Have Many Great Events Planned. Check Out Our Social Media, Discord & Calendar For Updates & More Details. https://bloodshadow.carrd.co/ You can also Explore all of our great spots for photos, Dancing, Music & Adult Fun. Enjoy Movies @ Our Drive-In, Bowl, Play Games, Or Explore Our Town, Castle & Cemetery! We are Lovense Enabled & Our Rentals Too. Music throughout the day by: DJ Soul in Chains DJ Arwen DJ Beetle & More We look forward to seeing you, Arwen, Melita & Polly When: Sunday. November 13th, All Day Event Where: BloodShadow, A Gothic Sanctuary & Community **Adult, Human Looking Avatars only!


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TELEPORT HERE: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/GEL%20Community%2037/6/5/22


Contact pollypeach.boo inworld or bloodshadowsl@gmail.com with inquires


Tuesday, November 8, 2022

Comedy Relief: Slut Gear on Super sale in Second Life! Come get you some- Lanai Jarrico Reporting...




Since the beginning of Second Life, self-expression has been the #1 goal for many who embark on this virtual journey. Whether people like to express themselves artistically, musically, poetically, or verbally. It has all come down to one thing. Personality. Everyone has their own and it shows in the unique ways people communicate here while collecting friends who share common interests. 


Aside from personalities, a good visual helps enhance the persona they are trying to project. Well in some cases... 


Everyone in the virtual world regardless of a bubbly personality or a lackluster introvert, the appearance of an avatar speaks volumes, it either aligns with the person’s personality or often time leaves nothing else for the imagination. Either way, is there a right or wrong? Does decorum even matter in Second Life?


That brings me to the purpose of this article. I’m boggled by some of the choices peeps make when it comes to their avatar appearance. Perhaps I’m being a Karen or I’m just being vocal where others just shake their heads and banter back and forth in IM cracking jokes about the various choices of attire and whatnot while they “people watch” at venues.



 Just like in real life, In Second Life bodies come in all shapes and sizes just like mesh clothes. Finding something that works can be a challenge but the rule of thumb is if you are unsure about a fit,  try a demo or go a size up instead of 3 sizes too small to avoid looking like a sausage in spandex with all your bits and bobs hanging out or a special shopper that frequents the local Walmart, some peeps should check the mirror (zoom in closely and pan around your avatar)  before teleporting out the door. 

                                                          

While visiting a concert, I was inspired to write about this topic in hopes it will help lead avatars in a different direction or at least give them food for thought. How we perceive ourselves is way different than how others see us. For instance, I know I’m a Goddess in both worlds but Orion and a few others seem to think I’m not. I won’t argue the fact…let’s move on, it’s not ALL about me.


The first thing I want to bring up is the 2 decades-long trend of thigh-high extra tight boots and ultra minis. Why does it seem, the majority of single ladies dancing in the clubs seem to be wearing this same uniform? I’m perplexed. Maybe it's some secret society or something. Are classy girls excluded from whatever it is they are doing? DO I even want to know? Let’s start with the ladies before I tear into the opposite sex and their choices. WHY? Just why?


I set out to find answers…



With liquid courage in hand…. I set out to interview some men on the topic of Slut Gear to see if it really turns them on or makes them secretly rethink their gender orientation.



Not trying to be biased or anything but I turned to SLE’s own Orion Baral. I literally didn’t have to say a word, I just glanced at someone in the crowd and gave him the side eye and he already knew my question.  “Call me old fashioned but elegance is sexy”, he said as he began derendering women left and right I think a few dudes got erased from his screen too.


The next person I approached was Ninjaantwoord who gives 0 fux when it comes to giving an upfront honest opinion and here’s what he had to say. “OK, just so I’m clear, panties belong under skirts when in public, same as in real life. Obviously, there are exceptions to this rule, but generally, if you don’t want to be viewed as a slut, it’s easier if you don’t dress like one.”



Luchenpur Darwin, Owner of Center Ground Gallery of Art said,  “I guess a lot is dependent on the setting.  If they are at the beach or clubs where club sexy. Be as sexy as you want to be. It is the appropriate attire for it then have at it. I think it's fine.  Most of the time though sensual and sexy dress to me still means you don't have to show it all to attract attention. And the way an outfit is cut to show some skin can still be enticing.   I don't have any advice except, to do what makes you feel good and happy about yourself.



Another male who wished to remain anonymous so we will call him “Phil” said, “well there are a few directions questioning why they do, or just shaming, or psychological why they hate their mothers and have daddy issues and dress like that” 


These men bring up good points but I really had to dig my heels in deep to find a man who actually likes scantily clad females walking around with camel toes, cleavages, and asscracks on full display. Not to mention the bounce action.


I came across a fellow that I will call “Fred” who was hanging out at the Keyhole like a roach on a wall. I could tell by his basic avatar appearance and freebie t-shirt that read “I love Tiddies” that he was only in Second Life for a “good time”.  I'm pretty sure he derendered my clothing the second he saw me, as his crosshairs were all over me when I landed. At first, he stayed silent and then said…..” no Inglés. ¿puedo tener algunos Lindens?


WTF! Moving on…


Poups Sabra; Kreatures Breeder says, to be honest, Lanai, I like women wearing sexy clothes but to me, there is a difference between showing a little bit with classy clothes and wearing gross clothes, too much does not attract me at all.  Second life is a free world so everyone can do what they like and I respect that, but my advice to these girls would be not to do too much because that will not attract the few good guys out there ... that s how I see it.”


Poups brings up a good point about the quality of men that these women are potentially missing out on dressing like that.  It’s true, not all sluts end up like Julia Robert’s character, Vivian Ward in the movie Pretty Woman


Anyway,  I decided to take it a step further with the majority of the women choosing the type of outfits that would offend the average streetwalker like Vivian, I turned to the music scene and asked a couple of musicians their thoughts on these groupies that show up at their gigs.


I asked long-time musician and friend Dallas Winslet his thoughts on slut gear at his concerts and he had this to say,  “actually I am glad they come but I never really see what they r wearing, but I really don't mind what they wear. I am really too busy concentrating on what I am doing.”


That makes sense but I had to ask him when he is out and about does it attract his attention.


“Well, I am a man and I love women but I don't go looking to see what they r wearing”


Fair enough.



The next musician I accosted for input  was the one and only Icecremn Merlin who was glad to share some insight. 


“LOL.....My fans are mostly older 40 plus and are there because I don't play what other players play so most dress properly. Those who dress sultry or slutty are always welcome, but I think it's silly. The part I don't get is why they hit on me.  I mean really....cartoon sex?..... Come on. But...I have seen some avatars in here and I'm amazed at how good they look...and those are the ones that dress appropriately.”


I think Icecremn is on to something extraordinary here... Appropriately dressed women are actually sexier.


Upon gathering some insight from men in Second Life the only conclusion I can come up with is the old-fashioned saying “to each their own”. Everyone has the right to wear what they want to wear and act like they want to act just so long as it is not infringing on others or cause harm to another person. Self-degradation is also a choice one must live with if it is a choice they are willing to accept. Women practicing the slut gear culture can’t be surprised when they are treated with the type of respect or lack thereof based on the “uniform” they wear. Just like a clown cannot complain about not being taken seriously.




This article is for entertainment purposes only.






Monday, November 7, 2022

SMR Events | Movember 2022 Fundraising Campaign & Drive November 1- November 30

 


 November 1, 2022, through November 30, 2022

MEN'S HEALTH IS AT A TIPPING POINT

 Globally, on average, men die 6 years earlier than women, and for largely preventable reasons.

It’s Time to Change the Game for Men’s Health & Survival

SMR Events hosts SL’s third Annual Movember® Fundraising Campaign for Charity ♂ Mօʋɛʍɮɛʀ 2022 ♂.

The Ultimate Goal is to raise funds and awareness during the month of November, via our fundraising drive and various interactive campaigns/events in support of the Movember® Foundation~  the leading charity changing the face of men’s health~

 The Campaign Spans the entire month of November and features; an Online Fundraiser via FB, a GRID-WIDE Fundraising Drive with Supporting Events, the ‘Grow for a Cure’ Moustache/Beard Growth Challenge & Photo Campaign, The Welcome to Movember® Men's Health Fair, and a Black Tie Charity Ball to wrap the Campaign.

Together with our Partners, Community, Friends, and Family, we are on a Movember® Mission doing what we can to help men live happier, healthier, longer lives.

We invite you to Join us on our Mission
 

HOW CAN YOU MAKE AN IMPACT?

DONATE | PARTICIPATE | RAISE FUNDS | SPONSOR

Make a Donation

Every Single Dollar Counts toward Men’s Health Project Funding & Research.

Visit one of our Donation Kiosks Across the Grid:

   http://bit.ly/Movember-KioskFinder

   http://bit.ly/Movember-SalesTour

Visit our Fundraising Page: https://www.facebook.com/donate/451779403464212 

All donations are secure and sent directly to the Movember Foundation®.

PARTICIPATE

Grow for A Cure

GROW A MO

Patchy, lopsided, itchy, or epic – whatever Mo OR Beard you grow this Movember® your face will raise funds and awareness for men’s health.

POSE WITH A MO

Join our Photo Campaign Pose with your MO or a Prop to shed light on Movember® and raise funds

Participate in or Visit the Movember® Grow for A Bro Men’s Health Fair

        Be A Mo Bro/Sis~Tell Your Story or Grow for a Bro

        Visit the Clinic or Bring a Bro in for a Virtual Check-Up

        Check out our Movember® Exhibits and Informationals

Check out Affiliate & Partner Events http://bit.ly/SMR-Movember-Events-Schedule

     Stay Updated visit: https://www.facebook.com/donate/451779403464212 for Campaign

     Details, Events & Announcements

RAISE FUNDS WITH US

Become a Movember® 2022 Kiosk Affiliate: 

     Place one of our ♂ Mօʋɛʍɮɛʀ 2022 ♂ Kiosks and raise funds with us. Every Linden counts.  

HOST A MO-MENT or A MO-VENT

Host a Fundraising Event or Challenge

We are encouraging our Kiosk Affiliates to rally around one of our KIOSKS and host ♂ Mօʋɛʍɮɛʀ 2022 ♂ fundraising MO-VENTs to pull in more funds and gain traffic at their locations, grab your crew, and do something fun and easy.

Hosting is all about having a good time for a good cause. Throw a Party, Have a Shave Off, a Sale or an Auction, OR Create your own  MO-MENT challenge – it can be anything. Your epic efforts will help change the face of men’s health. The possibilities are endless!! We will assist with promoting your events when we can. Here's the Event Schedule

Spread the word to your family, friends, associates, and customers about the campaign.

Promote Your Support: Tweet, Facebook, Post to Pinterest, Instagram and Linkedin.

Add the following Text & Links to your Email signatures/correspondence/website wherever you like:

Join Me in Supporting  Movember® 2022.  Together We are Changing the Face of Men’s Health!!

Details Here: https://bit.ly/Movember2022-PressRelease 

Donate Here: https://www.facebook.com/donate/451779403464212 

BECOME A SPONSOR

Support our InWorld efforts by becoming a sponsor today!

Choose a Tier Level Sponsorship Package and Sponsor our Virtual Drive.

Through sponsorship, there will be several opportunities to participate in our Campaign and market your services, organization or business throughout the month of November and at our Campaign Wrap Event: ♂ Mօʋɛʍɮɛʀ 2022 ♂ Black Tie Charity Ball.

Contact: MissyLuv Resident secondlife:///app/agent/b77bdaf7-d96c-403f-8a45-767a6ca173bc/about 

for Sponsorship Details or click here Calling ALL Sponsors!!

PLEASE HELP US SUPPORT THIS CAUSE AND SPREAD THE WORD.

TOGETHER WE CAN CHANGE THE FACE OF MEN’S HEALTH!  

YOUR DONATION CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE!!! EVERY DOLLAR COUNTS!!!

SMR Events

SMR Events, an Event Planning & Production company was started in 2013 by three prominent women of talent and focus, who wanted to bring their ten-plus years of skills and expertise to the SL Community with a focus on benefiting others. We are all about bringing joy and professionalism to whatever we do, whether its planning and designing your events or running our Gridwide Productions & Charity Campaigns [SLs Next Top Model,  𝕋𝕣𝕦𝕟𝕜 𝕆 𝕋𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕥, These Hands Don’t Lie-SMR Against Domestic Violence, Movember® 2020, 2021 & 2022 A Charity for Men’s Health]

No event is too big or too small for us to handle with the utmost care, flourish and detail.  We believe in helping others to do the things they can’t or are too busy to do and bringing awareness to the public about causes that touch us and require a spotlight because silence is detrimental.

Movember® and The Movember Foundation®

Movember® is an annual event involving the growing of mustaches during the month of November to raise awareness of men's health issues. Using the mustache as the driving symbol of the movement, Movember® focuses on the three key areas of prostate cancer, testicular cancer, and mental health & suicide prevention.

The Movember Foundation® runs the Movember® charity event,  housed at Movember.com and has been running Movember® events since 2004.

The goal: “To Change the Face of Men's Health."

By encouraging men (whom the charity refers to as "Mo Bros") to get involved, Movember® aims to increase early cancer detection, diagnosis, and effective treatments, and ultimately reduce the number of preventable deaths in men. Besides annual check-ups, the Movember Foundation® encourages men to be aware of family history of cancer and to adopt a healthier lifestyle. Since its inception, the Movember Foundation® has raised $837 million and funded over 1,200 projects in more than 20 countries.

Learn More about them and How they are accomplishing that here:

https://us.movember.com/about/foundation

Movember Foundation® is a registered Section 501(c)(3) non-profit corporation and is a tax-exempt organization (EIN: 77-0714052)

Campaign Hosted & Sponsored By:

SMR Events

Marketing & Media Sponsors:

EEM PR, Marketing & Professional Services

SL Enquirer

In-Kind Sponsor(s):

Create-A-Bear SL

The Delicious Foundation

Once Upon A Time Family Center

EEM PR , Marketing & Professional Services

~Gran Lanceros~[TIER IV Sponsors]

~Monte Cristos~[TIER III Sponsors]

~Presidentes~[TIER II Sponsors]

~Aficionados~[TIER I Sponsors]

Many thanks in advance for your support -- and please don't forget to forward this to anyone who you think might want to SUPPORT too! https://bit.ly/Movember2022-PressRelease 

Important Links:

Official Campaign Headquarters: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Sunflower%20Field/195/27/22 

Web Page: https://bit.ly/SMRs-Movember-Fundraiser 
Press Release: https://bit.ly/Movember2022-PressRelease Donate IW Here: http://bit.ly/Movember-KioskFinder Online Here: https://www.facebook.com/donate/451779403464212/ Donate Goods & Services: http://bit.ly/InKindDonationDetails-Movember Sponsor TODAY!: https://bit.ly/CallForSponsorsPacket-Movember22 Pick Up your Donation KIOSK Packet: https://bit.ly/MOV22-KIOSK-PickUp Official Campaign Headquarters:http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Sunflower%20Field/185/45/22 Web Page: https://bit.ly/SMRs-MovemberFundraiser

 
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