STAY IN THE KNOW

Keeping You Up To Speed.

Be Involved In The SL Community

Awareness is Key to Positive Change.

Explore Your Options

Get your REAL experience points HERE!.

CREATIVITY

The Possibilities are Endless.

Find Your Inner Peace

Ground Yourself and Discover New Things

SLE Ticker



16 Years and counting...Got SL News? Get it Published! Contact Lanai Jarrico at lanaijarrico@gmail.com
Showing posts with label alternative lifestyle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label alternative lifestyle. Show all posts

Thursday, March 11, 2021

.Gin City- "The Alternative Experience for the LGBTQI+ BDSM Community



 .GIN City is an adult safe 21+ human zone for the LGBTQI+ BDSM/Sex community that plays 100% house music 24/7 and organizes parties, events and competitions in various venues scattered throughout the city.  

.GIN City is a place where people appreciate, stimulate and instigate communication with each other. This is to strengthen the community. We also aim to offer a low gesture experience at our events and parties. We also offer educational information about sex, sexuality and sexual identity. We do not talk about politics or religion as they divide and .GIN City wants to bring people together-Gay, Straight, Lesbian, Bisexual, Pansexual and so forth. Male, Female, Shemale, Tboy, Trans, Intersex and more. 

ALL should feel safe at .GIN City... 'cause .GIN City is "The Alternative Experience!"

***If you have a background in psychology and/or sexology and like to join our team then you can contact Bold Burner for more information.

We look forward to meet you! 

Kindest regards, 

.GIN on Watch (Bold Burner)




Saturday, March 6, 2021

Grand Opening of Beyond Vanilla Resort- March 6th, 2021 from 12pm slt to 6pm slt.


 For Immediate Release:  

Beyond Vanilla Resort is an adult sim that was built by a woman that has lived a varied lifestyle. All of her different lifestyles are built into this sim. She is a submissive at heart and has lived a D/s lifestyle for over 20 years, her entire real life family is full of bikers, she is a US Army Veteran, and she loves music. Beyond Vanilla Resort is not just a music club. It is full of fun, interactive things to do.

The ground portion of Beyond Vanilla Resort is totally open to the public. Here you will find Whip's End, Beyond Vanilla's Premier Night Club, a public dungeon, a riverboat with table games and a semi-formal dance area, a river rapids excursion ride and last, but not least is an interactive games room that has quite a few games for discriminating tastes.

Whip's End, Beyond Vanilla's Premier Night Club, located at the landing area will be open a couple days a week with DJ's and/or live singers. It is an open air build with different dance options that cater to everyone's whim or desire.

The public dungeon is located in a mountain with caves and 4 distinct levels full of surprises for you to find. This area is the only part of the sim that is clothing optional.

Riverboat games has 4 floors. The first has table games, the second is a smaller, formal dance area, the third has black jack and poker tables, the top floor has a 4 person hot tub with some lounge chairs for relaxation.

The Interactive games area has a river rapids ride, games for basketball, football, shuffleboard, bowling and much more.

Up in the sky is a rock wall climbing area, an archery area, Breach & Clear Tactical training, animal hunting area and two race tracks. More fun places will be added over time.

Other events that will be held here are tournaments for archery, a triathlon, rlv hunts, vehicular racing, laser tag, paintball. These are just a few of the events currently being planned.

Staff:

Karlee Heartsong, Beyond Vanilla Resort Owner

DavisDeLong Resident, Sim manager

KT Danvers (sladedanvers resident), Whip's End Club Manager


Grand Opening of Beyond Vanilla Resort

 March 6th, 2021 from 12pm SLT to 6pm SLT.

DJ Trouble, DJ Sling, Live singers Chillee Hernandoz and Jae Sands will be performing for your musical enjoyment. Tours will be conducted by Davis Delong and Karlee Heartsong.

TELEPORT: Beyond Vanilla Resort, http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Beyond%20Vanilla/205/143/23

Thursday, July 14, 2016

Polyamory; Free Love in a New Age



Polyamory is a lifestyle which consists of trust and personal freedom. Without those traits, this lifestyle would seize to exist.
In Second Life true Poly couples are hard to find. They do not scout the grid for random sexual encounters and one night stands, or approach just anyone to enter their beds.  In fact, sex isn’t really the main agenda. Seeking like-minded individuals is the goal but it can be a challenge.


 Most people are into a traditional or even non traditional monogamous relationship, yet cheating and jealousy seem to create the most issues for them. Have you ever wondered why people cheat on their partners, even if they love them? In fact, 50% of marriages fail today. It isn’t always because of financial reasons, inability to fight fair, control, abuse, or other things that cause damage to a union.  Quite frankly, it is because people changed.  Boredom and or new found independence makes people seek something new to stimulate them.  That goes for anything from new hobbies, jobs, movies, books, cars, houses, change of environment, personal style, a new haircut- just about anything.
Keeping things fresh and exciting in a relationship is important but even then, some people just want or need new experiences.  This has only intensified through the years thanks to internet and social media. We all have the ability to find those special interests we don’t find in our local community or in our own home.
Why do you think   more people are choosing a Poly Lifestyle?
The answer is simple. Humans were not born with a limit on whom they fall in love with or who they become attracted to when they begin to experience attraction.  Manmade rules are what govern how we should commit to others and even act.  Just like government and religion was created to contain some form of civilization and order. There has to be a way to contain the madness right?



With scandals in the church and government getting out of control, it lessens the respect people have for order. Social norms, a belief system, upbringing and other environmental contributors are factors which form how we perceive things should be in our lives.
 But is that how it should be in this day and age? It seems those who chose their own path are seen as different or rebels. Why can’t people just see it as individualism?
 We are all different.  How can we all fit the same mold of what society THINKS is “normal”?  We all have our own needs, wants and desires. How can they all be fulfilled by one person or even put into one set of rules for all to abide by?

Many go through life thinking they are happy with the person they chose to be with. Others settle even further. Some are unhappy but don’t know how to express what they really want or are afraid of what others will think of them if they decide on a certain lifestyle or even express their inner desires.
 What truly makes a person happy? Or should the word be content?  Should a person settle and just go through life secretly thinking about what they really want?
How is that living?
Or worse yet, looking back at life wishing they would have made different decisions when it is too late. Nobody wants to live their golden years with regrets and missed opportunities for a better quality of life.



Those who practice poly believe that everyone has the right to be free to find their own happiness. They support each other, love unconditionally without judgment and for the most part feel more fulfilled in their own lives.
 It doesn’t mean polyamorists love any less. It is quite the opposite. They love more and worry less.  All the issues that can cause a relationship to fall apart such as cheating and jealousy are the least of their worries.  However, some form of communication and agreements need to be put in place to ensure all parties involved understand what they are getting into.


Swingers and Polyamorists should not be confused as the same things. Swingers are couples who agree to swap with other couples, have rules yet they remain loyal to each other. Polyamorists on the other hand can have multiple partners/lovers without restrictions or loyalty to just one.


Imagine living life with the people you choose to love and who love you, without being judged for your preferences. You could love freely and explore your sexuality. That is Poly.
These types of relationships can only become complicated when people are not honest with themselves or others, irresponsible or disrespectful.  For example, participants having unrealistic expectations of partners by creating rules or causing problems, because they want to suddenly become monogamous.  


 In order for this lifestyle to work, everyone involved needs to lay the cards on the table and agree to the freedoms of Polyamorists. If you are unsure, then do not get involved in the lifestyle.


 Safety should be first in the discussion.   By taking the initiative to protect yourself by practicing safe sex is very important to avoid sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies.  Also, if you are not comfortable with a partner it is best to not engage in situations with them. Do not do things just to make other people happy. Do what makes YOU happy first.
The whole point is being true to yourself and to others about what you want in a Polyamorists lifestyle and being respectful not to impose on others.



People who are quick to judge polyamorists for the lifestyle they choose are usually the biggest hypocrites. No one is perfect and just because you choose a lifestyle that does not fit the norms of someone else, doesn’t make what you do wrong.


It is all about personal preference. The world would be a better place is everyone looked within themselves, rather than looking for faults or reason to judge someone else. The phrase “Mind your own business of it does not directly affect you” comes to mind.
Take a good look around you. Observe the couples you know. Evaluate your own situation and make a decision that best suits what you want out of your life and go for what will enhance your quality of living. Surrounding yourself with people who support and love you for you is what matters the most.



Don’t settle. You only live once. Start by nurturing your personal freedom and if monogamy suits you best- stick with what works for you and your partner.


-J. Fiertze

 
cookieassistant.com