“The family. We were a strange little band of
characters trudging through life sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one
another’s desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of
our rooms, inflicting pain and kissing to heal it in the same instant, loving
laughing, defending and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us
all together”
~ Erma Bombeck
It took me a
while to write this particular article. I thought it was my first writers
block. Until now I never thought I could be speechless too. My profound love
for my family, my free will to sacrifice for them, my over possessiveness to be
protective all the time could never be measured in words. Well, we all have a family and we all know
what it means to be one of the members. Like Robert Brault in his blog said,
‘Family life is a bit like a runny peach pie, not perfect but who is
complaining.”
So, why family
life is so important even in virtual life? I packed my bags to look for an
answer role playing as a 12 year old kid. There are various adoption agencies
like NGI, Olrich, Heritage. I stopped by Heritage Adoption Agency.
There were
100s of panels each seeking child, parent, god child, sibling, god parent and
adults, all looking for a family. Kimi Ayakashi says to child she might adopt
someday soon, “I am a single mom. You do have a dad but I would parent as a
single parent. I can't wait to find my little one. I will be there for you. I
do want a child who understands parent's also need a break and do business as
well. I really want to have family life and be as interactive and hands on as
possible. Together I want to create a cosy home that is a safe haven for my
children to be themselves and be loved. I think children should be free to
create and explore but with boundaries created by a loving parent.”
There was
another family looking for a child, Jaiden and Brynne. where Jaiden Abbey
Lennox is the mom, Brynne Isabelle Sinclaire is the daughter, Starleigh Reese Sinclaire is Brynne's little
one. Jaiden says her idea of fun, “Anything as long as we are having fun as a
family! I enjoy games such as greedy or parcheesi, movie nights and just
spending time together in general. It doesn't matter to me as long as you are
spending time with those you care about. Greedy, drawing on mom’ walls,
twerking everywhere or even stealing food is allowed.” She continues, “I do
want to stress that I am looking for forever family. I want someone that is
going to want to be there next week, next month and a year from now. The
perfect fit is a must. ♥ I do the SL Facebook and Plurk stuff. I love skype and
voice! I am also alright with communication outside of SL. And I am a huuuuge
gaming nerd. So if you would like to play other games I am all for that too! I
play LoL, WoW and lots of L4D2. Zombies!” Laughs. “Forever's a big deal for
us. I play League with mom sometimes,
and we'd love you to join! I'm a bit of
a goofball, it's just my personality. We
need someone who can offset my crazy but still be crazy!” LilyChu, is about 12
years old, says “I'd like a family who is active. Not just online, but I'd love
to have moments where we can all come together and hand out as a family. Though,
I do understand some parents are busy, and that's fine too, as long as I am not
forgotten.”
Virtual
families are not bound by blood but trust, love and faith. Britney von Prague
says, “It’s the connection and the closeness that virtual families are famous.
I am into SL families because for me it is something I have lost in the real
world. I consider my SL family as my RL family. My mom is awesome, she is
someone that never quits working on something. My dad is someone who makes sure
you laugh. My siblings are a blend of everything. Most of all my family is
nuts.” She laughs and continues, “It’s been a year, a first for me. If I count
right, this is my 7th. Ever since we became a family, we say it was
fate that brought us together.” When asked what she likes to do, she says, “I
like to eat sugar and color on people. I have tried school in SL, nothing ever
fit for me. There was one school I loved, but it shutdown. It was Cloverdale. I
know a lot of people hated it, but I loved it. I was the President for the
Elementary and on the cheer team. Now days, most of the time we stand around
and chat or we play board games. At one year celebrations we are going to
Disney in Second Life.”
It is amazing
to see people from different parts of the world come together to look for
someone to love and be loved. There can be two logical answers for virtual
family’s existence, one is the absence of a proper one in real life and the
second is to share the experiences of virtual reality together. If some do not have a family in Virtual
Reality, they have friends. Few residents role play with real people as their
children and others sort for prim babies. Even though many sellers are selling
prim babies to care for; it still gets boring after some time. Taking care of
new born prim babies could be considered for the initial role play stage of
parenthood. To see ones child growing up is a great happiness in real life.
Like in real life, Second Life provides so many other activities which aid well
with family role plays.
There are many
schools for school role play, amusement parks etc. One of the school, I visited
is the Sunstrider Valley Elementary and High School. The Landmark is http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Sunstrider%20Valley/126/77/21.
It is helping kids excel in the
community and in education. There is a new sports centre, a grand school
building with amazing features and lots of fun. The school has great features like football, soccer, swimming
pool, baseball, basketball, ice hockey, ballet studio, library & computer
lab, auditorium theatre and gymnasium and fully working bathrooms with Life-Hud
options.
To enhance the family role play imitating it
like a real life community, few Estate owners are taking extra steps to provide
a community for all. One such is the Misthaven Estates, with 11 connected sims. A PG community with family
homes, school, mall, clubs. A train system connecting all the places, drivable
streets, starlight cinema theatre, bowling alley,
mini golf, arcade games and camping ground right on the Kid Grid. There are
others like the Olrich City, Downtown Shopping District, Pleasant Hope Estates,
Masoma County Residential Living Community, Almsteadt Estates and others.
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| Photograph Credit: Dilego Lavane, formed to a collage by Debby Sharma |
If there is a
perfect fit, then why not opt for the choice of having a
family virtually. It is said, bigger the better. It is better to be one of the
loving members and go through the ordeal every day than to explore the lands
and deserted towns alone in a virtual kingdom. Like Lisa Weeden said, “Being a
family means you are part of something wonderful. It means you will love and be
loved for the rest of your life”.
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