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Friday, December 11, 2015

The Countdown to THE DICKENS PROJECT has Begun!

The 2015 Edition of  festival known as The Dickens Project is set to open in Second Life on Saturday, December 12th with over 15 hours of live events of all kinds to benefit The Community Virtual Library. The Dickens Project will take place in the Community Virtual Library’s exhibit space in it's home on the Bradley University Sim

Seanchai Library is producing the festival, opening on December 12th and featuring Dickens’ A Christmas Carol; presenting the different staves (i.e. chapters) of the novella at different times to make the live readings accessible to residents from all over the globe. Other events will include Dickens Trivia, selections from other works of the author's vast canon, caroling by the Raglan Shire Tinie Carolers, and Fezziwig's Ball which begins at Noon on Saturday, December 19th.

A Winter Wonderland – the 2015 Holidays of hope ball 6th Annual Gala to Support the Relay For Life of Second Life, and the American Cancer Society


The 6th Annual Holidays of Hope Ball will be held Sunday, Dec 13th from 3 to 7 pm SLT as part of the 2015 SL Christmas Expo. This year’s theme will be A Winter Wonderland and is open to all residents of Second Life.  Sponsored by T1Radio, the formal ball will once again feature raffles and door prizes provided by SL’s premier merchants.  
The annual Holidays Of Hope Ball, established in 2010, is one of Second Life’s brightest holiday season highlights and brings together residents from all corners of the virtual community to celebrate the holidays and to support the American Cancer Society.  Holiday Gift Basket Raffle tickets, purchased via scripted kiosks, benefit the Relay For Life of Second Life. Past raffle prizes, and the door prizes which rain down on party goers, have included gift certificates and gifts donated by merchants from throughout Second Life, with values exceeding L$50,000. SL Merchants are invited to become Holidays Of Hope benefactors by providing Gifts and Gift Certificates. For more information please see below*.
This year the ball will be held at the Wonderland Ballroom, created by Darkstone Aeon of Stone’s Works, high above the Christmas Expo. There is no charge for admittance.

If you would like more information or would like more information about the Holidays Of Hope Ball please contact Trader1 Whiplash in world or email trader@t1radio.com .
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* How To Become a Holidays Of Hope Sponsor
•    If you wish to donate Gift Certificates, please be sure to enclose the certificate(s), a notecard with redemption instructions and a landmark to your store or Marketplace Link.
•    If you wish to participate in the Gift Basket Raffle, please provide a coupon to redeem the item, a graphic of the item and a landmark to your store. PLEASE DO NOT SEND OBJECTS.  This will allow you to control permissions.
•    Please be sure to enclose a full perm business logo.
•    ALL COUPONS AND GIFT CERTIFICATES MUST BE TRANSFERABLE.
•    All donors will be recognized by signage at the event and either On Air by T1Radio or by "object shouts" as the items are dispensed by the random gift givers at the ball.
Contact Renee Riva or Xyza Armistice for more information or to provide a gift or gift certificate for either the Holiday Raffle Basket or Random Door Prize.

Thursday, December 10, 2015

You can't win an argument - Lacy Muircastle reporting ...



Last week I experienced an extremely disappointing situation.  Being non-confrontationally inclined, my reaction was to back off from what could have turned into an extremely heated and emotionally charged argument.  If the person had taken the time to understand me they would have known that when my feelings are hurt I prefer to postpone talking about it until I can be calmer.  But said other party decided that I had not given them a chance to voice their side of the story and that I had chosen to believe the third party.  As a result I lost a friend.

Subsequently I came across a blog post by Bryn Donovan which struck a chord.  The headline was, Is Arguing Ever Really Worth It?

Dale Carnegie, he of “How to win friends and influence people" claims that it’s pointless to criticise anyone for anything and in a later chapter makes the statement “You Can’t Win an Argument”.

It seems though, that people generally love an argument and all the drama it brings with it.  Maybe it makes them feel alive.  We all get upset about things at one time or another, that’s only natural, but ranting about it in whatever forum only causes negativity and what is actually achieved in the long run?

How many times has a situation like this occurred to you in SL or on Facebook?  You get into personal arguments because you’re defending someone else. It goes like this:

1. Your FB friend posts something.
2. One of their FB friends says something derogatory about this post.
3. You show up and tell their FB friend that they’re being mean.

Wouldn’t a better way to handle it, though, be this?

1. Your FB friend posts something.
2. One of their FB friends says something derogatory about this post.
3. Ignoring the other person, you tell your FB friend their post is awesome.

There are of course a few situations in which it still makes sense to confront a person directly. If someone around you says something racist, for instance, then call them on it (even if she’s a stranger in the locker room.) In a situation like this, you only have two choices.  You can make it seem like it’s fine and normal to say such things, or you can make it clear that it’s unacceptable.



But about 99% of the time, avoiding outright arguments is the way to go. Persuasion is fine, but fighting just makes everyone feel bad.


What do you think? How do you deal with arguing, online, inworld and in real life?

Top 5 tips on how to keep romance alive in Second Life-Becca Drascol Reporting





Just like nurturing a child or a pet, a relationship needs nurturing. And for a romantic relationship it is a bond that can be just as delicate as it can be strong. One needs to think of a good, healthy relationship as a work in progress, where there is definitely a beginning, middle but no foreseeable end. So here we go...my top 5 tips for keeping the romance alive.

1.    Respect-Have you ever blocked and or unfriended someone in SL because they had no respect for or even towards you? We all have. So why then would you be in any type of romantic relationship virtual or real, if there was no respect? Any type of relationship needs respect on both sides.

2.     Honesty-Being honest is another must. While some people can work through and beyond lies, but for most sometimes even one lie can fully change a relationship. Just as trust is a huge issue in relationships, honesty goes hand in hand with that. And afterall, no one likes being lied to.


3.    Making sure to make time for your partner-Like any type of relationship be it romantic, friendship or family, for a bond to stay or grow stronger you must make time for one another. For couples it could be as simple as choosing one night a week and declare it date night. Pick a location in SL you both would enjoy and perhaps have fun and romantic things to do together. The most important part is to take time that is a couples only thing for you and your special someone to enjoy and connect or reconnect even.

4.    Keep it hot-Romance equals intimacy. All people crave intimacy of some form, which is of course human nature. So if that means in SL your idea of keeping it hot is a nice time dancing slow sexy dances, so be it. Cuddling with your partner can be so rewarding. For most of us in SL there is a certain attachment to not only our own avatar but to the avatar of our partner. Sometimes it can be so nice to sit back and just cuddle, be close or hug even. And lastly sex, yes make time for sex. While sex isn't the most important part of intimacy it too is something as humans we crave. For some it may be silly to have sex in a virtual world, but as one half of a couple who plays SL with her RL husband of six years, even sex in SL can be fun and hot.


5.    Show your love-Rather your SL relationship is strictly SL or is a part of your RL as well, for a long lasting, growing relationship to survive, show your love. Give gifts, something small and just sweet you thought your partner would adore, or if you’re so inclined expensive and you felt they just had to have. Show small gestures of love, even if that gesture is simply saying "You know, you make me smile." Request a song that means something to you and your partner. A song request can make the guy or girl in your life at the least smile, and who knows maybe even tear up with joy. Again as well as cuddling for the sake of keeping it hot, cuddle, hug and do whatever shows your love to your SL sweetie.



What’s the trick?

Keeping romance alive is a bit of fun, sometimes hard work, and of course intimacy and love. But most importantly it’s doing whatever betters the relationship you have with that special someone. So what is the trick? Simply put maybe there isn’t one. I don’t know...but what I do know is hopefully these top 5 help you SL’ers in keeping your SL romance alive.

Wednesday, December 9, 2015

Watercolors in the Rain, Advent Calendar is HOT!



The Advent Calendar at the Watercolors in the Rain sim is burning hot right now! A sim filled with adventure, exploration and fantastic photo shoot opportunities, straight out of the real life novel, Watercolors in the Rain, is now in Christmas mode! Come get a free gift each day until Christmas! Also, take part in our normal, sim wide hunt for another 22 free gifts! 

Including the very limited edition EVO fairies, created especially for the Watercolors in the Rain sim and based on actual characters from the novel written by David Lavigne (Surreal Skytower in SL).

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/LEA29/203/19/26

Ugly Sweater Holiday PARTY AT DADDY-O's Thursday December 10th 6:00 - 8:00 PM



You know how these go in RL right? You grab that ugly of all uglies Holiday sweater, put it on for that one night a year and wear it to the party. Well we are doing it in SL! Music will be provided by the fantastic DJ Rocky! Bring your friends or meet new ones at Daddy-O's...WHERE FUN RULEZ!!!!!!!

Tuesday, December 8, 2015

Oceanlane Enterprises (CAPX) SPO Has Started!



**You can now fund your account via PayPal!**  Use this link to fund your CapEx account:

https://www.onlinecapex.com/currency


Dear Capital Exchange Members:

The Oceanlane Enterprises (CAPX) Secondary Public Offering (SPO) of stock has started. Here are the SPO details for CAPX:

Existing CAPX Shares: 2,500,000
SPO Shares: 250,000
SPO Price CD$9.00
New Total CAPX Shares (if SPO sells out): 2,750,000
Value of SPO Shares Available: CD$2,250,000
Days for SPO: 30 Days

For more information on CAPX, use this link:

https://www.onlinecapex.com/symbol/CAPX/profile

To buy SPO shares of CAPX, use this link:

https://www.onlinecapex.com/ipo

Any questions, contact CAPX CEO Skip Oceanlane (myself) via IM within Second Life, or e-mail at nyrounder@aol.com. Thank you for being a part of Capital Exchange.

Skip Oceanlane, CEO
Capital Exchange
www.onlinecapex.com

Top 5 Reasons Why Businesses fail in Second Life-Becca Drascol Reporting



I could probably list more than just 5 reasons a virtual business would fail. I think all owners set out with a great idea and even business plan. And of course no one sets out to fail. Even if you're the go getter with tons of time and start off with everything you could fathom will make the business a success, sometimes failure is inevitable. Without failure, what would we try harder for? Or change the next go round? So in this article I will go over what I feel are the top 5 for business failure.

1)Funds-Yes it takes money to run a business even virtually. Money for land, equipment, or furniture...sometimes just the impression you make with the look of your business can make or break you. Salary? Some do and some don't pay salary within SL, but for those of you who do, it can be quite hard on the one paying that salary to the staff to maintain funds. For as many of us who gain our linden simply working in SL, one option is to put money in from RL. While there is nothing wrong with funding a virtual business this way, if it makes you become stressed when things do not go your way for your dollar, well then the virtual shit hits the fan. And for some, like a club I once upon a time frequented, just using RL funding made the club go from fun to a very harsh environment.


2)Land-Whatever you seek to venture out with in Second Life business, land is a must! While finding good land isn't so difficult, finding the right priced, good trafficked and correct rated sim for your business may muddle up the picture. And even once you have land, maintaining it is always a task or two.

3)Staff-While some SL businesses can run without staff such as any goods store, a club or hangout must have good reliable working staff. While there are oodles of hiring groups, there are also tons and tons of clubs and other venue types in need of staff and competition for employees, like in the real world it can make staffing a venue very difficult.


4)Traffic-No matter what type of business venue you're trying to run in SL, a business needs customers. In all forms of business the goal is to sell something. Whether it be goods such as clothes, shapes or shoes etc., or if it's a club you run, people have to know you are open and running.

5) Competition-With every type of business imaginable in SL, the competition can be maddening. Not only the amount of other businesses out there can harm your business but how you run your own can seriously change rather it thrives or fails. For every place out there, there's one on the rise. One that works harder and faster in a shorter amount of time than you. Or perhaps the other venue is simply better liked.

Failing is not the end
Just because a business may fail does not mean the business owners, staff or otherwise per say didn’t try their hardest, or give their best effort. There is good and bad in all things in life. And sometimes a failure can be a life lesson, a way to improve and look at what went wrong.


It can mean an opening for a new start. And in the end of things there can be no success if we knew not what failure is. So rather one picks up and starts anew, or simply moves on and tries something non business related in SL, one thing is certainly true, venues will come and go and failure is always going to be possible.

Sunday, December 6, 2015

Playmate Magazine Event Sunday December 6th 12-2pm SLT



The Diamond Nightclub is one of SL's Premier Club.  We are proud to host a Playmates Magazine event featuring DJ. Alfie and the Playmates Centerfold Models.  
Elegant Venue, Great Music and Stunning Entertainment. 

Sunday, December 6th at 12-2pm SLT

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Friday, December 4, 2015

A TRIO OF IRISH TALES II is now available on Amazon!




Continuing the popular A TRIO OF IRISH TALES, this collection presents two further adventures of characters from the first volume in Patrick's Path and The Fairy Tree, plus an entirely new cast in Two Houses


This is my most ambitious release to date, and that is saying something in a year where I embraced many challenges in my growth as a writer and storyteller.  A TRIO OF IRISH TALES II is the perfect culmination of this year's journey, and includes three original ink & wash illustrations by me, as well as the lovely cover art by Micki McIntyre.

"Three modern tales steeped in the lore of an ancient land that will call to your Celtic soul, even if you never thought you had one."

 

Previews of this book AND a Special Holiday Offer are available at http://stories.jdcullen.com

Follow me on my new mailing list Stories by Judith Cullen on Mailchimp

HAPPY HOLIDAYS to you and yours, and thank you for your continued support and encouragement.


Thursday, December 3, 2015

SinFinity; A Club that Sounds Like It Needs To Be Iconic




The name SinFinity and the curiousness about it is something everyone needs to experience, as well as the sim it inhabits.
 There are double clubs; Right across from club Sinfinity is Club Foxy, and a big mall right beside it. There are so many roads that you can't count on which way you will be going next. It is an adventure. 

Club Sinfinity has mini-malls in the back, a pool to the right, a bar and giant TV for anyone to watch.  This is a new and upcoming hangout spot. For those into combat, we offer the grim combat system setup for pvp (optional).

 This is something  never seen before, while listening to music, or riding your bike on the roads, you can do PVP. YES, PVP! Imagine running thru the malls and being able to have a match with your friends.  This place needs to be put on the map and  visited, both clubs welcome all, nobody is excluded. 

If you cant find something there just give it time, We are still expanding!

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Bellflower%20Island/139/67/18

InspirationSL Event is Taking You To The Ballroom! Open Until December 15th



The third round of InspirationSL event is now open and the theme is : Selena Gomez ! 

OMG it's going to be so elegant ! 20 designers gathered together to bring you the best classy items created specially for the event ! With the Christmas holidays coming soon and all those bright evening parties, we all need special gowns to wear and beautiful accessories to go with.  This is what you will find there! 

Sponsored by Jumo Fashion, Rayne Couture, Masoom, A la folie, Mariposa, Belle Epoque and Purple Moon. This event is open till the 15th of December. All the finest clothing, accessories and so much more can be found in this amazing fashion forward event.
Do not miss it!

Wednesday, December 2, 2015

ICE SKATING PARTY AT DADDY-O's Thursday December 3rd 6:00 - 8:00 PM


Winter has hit the SIM hard! But to us that just means winter partying time! So we put up an ice skating area - bigger and better than most you will see in SL and added some great singles and couples Ice skating rezzers with routes programmed for you to use. Come join DJ Rocky for the Grand Opening of THE RINK AT DADDY-O's! DJ Rocky will be playing songs from his vast list  - including your requests. So gather your friends, get out your skates, put on your mittens and come on over for a fun night of ice skating at Daddy-O's....WHERE FUN RULEZ!

Tuesday, December 1, 2015

Playmates Magazine's December Issue Is Out Now!


Playmates Holiday Special Issue is  available in-world at our headquarters and many kiosks throughout SL or get your free issue on SL Marketplace here:
The Playmates celebrate the holidays in a series of fun photo's, plus we showcase holiday fashions by Ghee, and feature SL's Best Winter Wonderlands and much more!  Get your free issue today and celebrate the holidays with us

The SL Enquirer's December AD Sale! December 1st-December 31st


Happy Holidays from The SL Enquirer

The Christmas Season has begun! What better way to get started on your holidays savings than right now? 

Beginning December 1st,  SLE is offering 10% off all Advertising packages plus a 300L Gift Certificate to give as a gift with your Ad purchase.

Lock in your savings today. This offer expires December 31st.

Visit our Ad Office 


Monday, November 30, 2015

Center Ground Group presents "Late Night Center Ground with DJ Mizz Dibou and her Nusoul Neosoul Show “Live”




Tuesday is new music night with Mizz Dibou and the NuSoul NeoSoul Show. 

Join Mizz Dibou as she does her live BSR digital radio webcast from Club Center Ground 7-9 PM SLT. She will be featuring new and upcoming independent artist, along with favorite Neosoul, RnB, and whatever else catches her fancy.
Hosted by the Angels, Attire is casual.


 Late Night Center Ground is underwritten by the Center Ground Business District. Visit our collection of stores and galleries.  Rental spaces available  


About Center Ground Group: Originally started by 4 environmentally focused leaders to discuss and promote true sustainable modeling, and preserve their ideas and dreams in the SL metaverse, now expanded to include arts and cultural interest

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If you would like more information on this topic IM Luchenpur Darwin inwolrd or e-mail Purnell_L@MartinPurnell.com

Saturday, November 28, 2015

Gizza Big Discount for Black Friday- Deals All Week! Nov 27th-Dec 6th


Are you ready for Black Friday Sales All Week? We are ready!

20% - 50% OFF!  We are waiting for you.

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The Pink Vampire Missing for 3 Days - Fans Frantic


 The Pink Vampire left her home in the fabulous Hollywood Hills Monday Nov. 23rd at about 2pm SLT, sources say. She was supposed to arrive about 11pm at the home of friends Don and Ellen Baker in Ely, NV where she was planning to spend a few days and share a Thanksgiving dinner. The Police blots indicate that the Baker’s reported The Pink Vampire missing at 2am the following morning. They were told that they would have to wait 48 hours before anything could be done. That is when Mrs. Baker mentioned the missing person was The Pink Vampire. The police immediately sprang into action. An APB was put out for the songstress’ easy to spot pink Mercedes. The FBI was called in after 24 hours of searching. It was at this point that news leaked of the missing star and fans became frantic. The amazing singing sensation and regular performer at The Hollywood Ballroom was gone without a trace. There were no breaks in the case until The Pink Vampire showed up on the doorstep of the Baker’s home early this morning, completely unaware that three days had passed since she had left Hollywood or that anyone was looking for her. When our reporters asked an insider, who wished to remain anonymous, about what happened, his only response was that her route did take her past area 51.
More on this story as it breaks…..


This Weekend at The Hollywood Ballroom

Saturday – 7pm SLT – The Pink Vampire
Nothing can stop the Pink Vampire from sharing her fabulous voice and style with her friends at The Hollywood Ballroom. Pink will be giving her all in yet another amazing performance. If you have heard her, you know that there is no other voice in SL like hers; if you haven’t heard her……it’s time you did. Join us for this wonderful hour of fun and music.



Sunday – 6pm SLT – Jae Sands
The Hollywood Ballroom is proud to announce that Jae Sands will be making our Ballroom his Sunday night home. Both management and our guests were so impressed by Jae that we had our people get in touch with his people, everyone did lunch and at the end of the meeting Jae signed a contract for Sunday evenings. Join us for an hour of rat pack style music by this consummate performer.

Sunday – 7pm SLT – Rod Stewart Tribute Show

Our own Rod Stewart will be appearing on stage. It will be all Rod Stewart hits, all the time. Come hear all your Rod Stewart favorites, such as Tonight's the Night, Maggie May, Da Ya Think I'm Sexy and of course some of his Fabulous work in the area of standards.


COMING SOON – CHRISTMAS IN BIG BEAR MOUNTAINS


The Hollywood Ballroom

Is Second Life Supporting Terrorist Schools?- Dean Lawson Reporting…



There are some of you who will read this headline and immediately think of airplanes flying into the World Trade Towers on September 11, 2001, or the more recent attacks in Paris. But terrorism, according to the Miriam-Webster website, is defined as “the use of violent acts to frighten the people in an area as a way of trying to achieve a political goal”.

Although, in recent years terrorism has been applied mainly to Muslim extremists, according to several sources, including the FBI, terrorism is not defined by an individual’s political or religious beliefs but it is the tactic of using violence to scare people into doing what you want them to do. Therefore, the United States Airforce, dropping atom bombs on Nagasaki and Hiroshima in an attempt to coerce Japan into surrendering was an act of terror. 

The Amritsar massacre, in which British troops fired on unarmed Indian civilians to discourage the Indian Independence movement was an act of terror. And therein lies the problem, the world economy, the governments of powerful nations, where forged by acts of terror. The use of the word terror when describing the actions of Islamic radicals is simply the big army pointing their finger at the little army and saying; “It’s okay for us to control the world through the threat of violence, but it isn’t okay when you do it.” The bottom line is that we are being hypocrites when we use the word “terrorist”.

This is not to say I condone the acts of a handful of violent men who happen to be Muslim. The reason why I say “handful” is because, praise be to Allah, the majority of Muslims on this planet prefer to live in peace with the rest of us. So it is only small group of angry individuals that make me think twice about booking a flight to Paris or New York or Mumbai. 

Given the choice I would prefer to live in a peaceful world in which I don’t have to worry about being strip searched because of my physical appearance. Let’s be honest, most people from Southern Europe, Latin America, North Africa and Central Asia could easily be mistaken for a “Middle Easterner” and I would rather not have to deal with the prospect of airport security having the right to confiscate my belongings as part of the “Patriot” Act.

So how do we put an end to the violence? The solution is simple, we stop teaching our children that violence is an acceptable way to solve problems. What do I mean by this?

 Let’s look at “America’s War on Drugs”. There was an epidemic of drug abuse in the United States, some might say there still is.  Instead of focusing on helping drug addicts overcome their addiction, the U.S. Government sprayed poisonous chemicals on the rain forests of South America then proceeded to initiate a war in the cities of Colombia to kill the “evil" drug dealers. The DEA eventually helped the Colombian police to track down and execute the Colombian drug lord Pablo Escobar, but has this stopped the Gringos from getting high?

If a man gets drunk and drives into a school bus resulting in the deaths of several children, should we drop bombs on the Napa Valley Vineyards? 

Of course not, but we teach our children to be hypocrites when we use our military to solve our dependency on cocaine, heroine and petroleum. We also teach our children to be hypocrites when we allow them to be entertained by violent video games and movies. I know a lot of people who would never allow their child to watch the kind of violence portrayed in a movie like Reservoir Dogs but they have no problems with allowing their children to watch Pirates of the Caribbean.

 From a moral point of view, this couldn’t be more backwards. The violence portrayed in Reservoir Dogs is less harmful because it comes across as ugly, unpleasant and, because of some brilliant acting, very painful. In the movie “Born on the Fourth of July” a single bullet cripples a young man and ruins his life, but in Pirates of the Caribbean canons are fired, muskets are discharged, swords are brandished and the pretty heroic characters, the characters that we are intended to identify with, emerge from the battle unscathed. This is dangerous because it teaches children that only the “bad guys” get hurt when nations go to war, and what child raised in a self righteous God fearing all American home thinks of himself as being the “bad guy”?

In our minds we are the heroes of the movie. Ironically, the members of Al Qaeda and ISIS are no different. They believe what they are doing is God’s will. We see them as brainwashed fools, but are we any less foolish?

It is easy to be manipulated by the media. Hollywood movie producers are experts at understanding how images, music and stories affect us emotionally and psychologically. Most adults are swept into a suspension of disbelief as soon as the lights dim and the music swells, so what chance do impressionable young children have?

The answer is they don’t have any chance at escaping the propaganda, and so they grow up to become adults who spend their time and money creating pirate sims where they can role play and fantasize about being rapists and murderers. Because this is what the pirates were, they were terrorists, who used violence to take control of the Caribbean then imported slaves from Africa to work on tobacco and sugar cane fields in Jamaica and Haiti.



Now I realize that most of you, when you role play as swashbucklers and buccaneers, don’t think of yourselves as being rapists, terrorists or slave owners but that’s what the pirates were. Of course there is the argument; “It’s just a game. I’m not actually hurting anyone.” But what you are doing is propagating the belief that, the way the Pirates behaved was not only acceptable, it was also heroic. And it is that belief that causes young men to join the military and travel to across the world to drop bombs on babies in Vietnam, Iraq and Afghanistan. And, in some extreme cases, it is the belief that violence is heroic, that causes some young men to show up at their high school with an assault rifle.


We have to stop thinking of terrorists as being alien beings from another world. The terrorists are members of our global village, they are our children and we have taught them, by the way we do business, the way we govern and the way we entertain ourselves, that violence is noble.

So, unless you think it’s okay for someone to start up a Second Life sim where people can role play as hijackers and suicide bombers, maybe you should think twice about the games you’re playing.


What are your thoughts? Use the comment box below.



*this article is the opinion of the writer.

Friday, November 27, 2015

Top 5 Reasons Why Relationships Fail in Second Life-Becca Drascol Reporting



Whether your SL relationship is just an in-world romance or one that steps outside into RL, all relationships have specific elements that make them last or fail. Even if the relationship is in-world only and may not be as serious, all people tend to rely on a few basic things that they will or won't tolerate. In this article I will go over what I feel are top 5 things that make a relationship fail in SL.


1)Stalking-All relationships usually start off sweet and honeymooner-esque. And although most stalking usually occurs after a relationship ends badly, that's not always the case. Rather it's a possession or control type issue, sometimes people have an unhealthy obsession with someone they have been involved with. To me this is a very distinct line and timing of something that ruins or causes the fail of a relationship.

2)Partner becomes controlling-While we want to think we would know a controlling person when we meet them, the truth can be so very far from that. Sometimes it’s just when things seem to be rolling along merrily and then BAM one partner starts to control. From telling their partner how to dress, who to talk to, and furthermore what type of job they can or cannot do within SL, or even where they can go. This too can kill any relationship. It is only when one becomes passive to the control is when it doesn't end the relationship.

3)Cheating-When it comes to cheating I must first say that one there is a clear cut definition of cheating, which would be having a romantic and/or sexual relationship with someone other than your partner. With that being said, and with the fact that polyamory is on a RL rise, along with open relationships, and different sexual behaviors that would normally be defined as cheating, what cheating is truly defined as may be blurred. But whenever an issue is one that is a betrayal to your partner it is most likely going to end up heartbreak hotel and the end of a relationship.

4)New love interest-Ever get that feeling that the relationship has changed? That your partner is falling for another? Or boom...they leave you and then you find that it's for another. And unless you want to cling or hold on...or become the above mentioned, a stalker...your love finding another is normally the end of things. And so it should be.

5)Dishonesty-What's a little white lie? A huge lie? One lie...or two...three? Well I guess it would depend on if the person lied to can live with the truth that it spawned from. Sometimes couples can thrive even when dishonesty arises mid relationship. Even lies that most people would not stand for, such as they're married RL and you never knew, or have children. Or perhaps they play as a male avatar and to your knowledge were male RL then suddenly they confess they happen to be female RL. Some of these lies would not affect one whatsoever and they would continue the SL relationship as it was, only in knowing the things they did not before. But for most, lies and dishonest behavior will put a nail in the coffin for sure.

Why do they fail?
Why one relationship fails while another thrives may be a mystery or obvious and clear. It could be one or all of my top five play a part in relationship failures. Hopefully with these top five in mind, you SL’ers out there can better a current relationship or make informed decisions when it’s time for an end.


This is Becca Drascol wishing you a happy healthy relationship...or new beginnings should one fail.

 
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