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Sunday, July 26, 2015

The Case for Male Mesh Avatars – Stareyes Galaxy Reporting



Within the last year, mesh avatars have made a big impact on the visual appearance of Second Life (SL). While the female avatars were first equipped with mesh avatar shapes, mesh male avatars have also become available. Retrofitting one’s avatar with mesh is a major undertaking and causes much consternation among the males in SL. I met with a makeover prospect, “Mr. Jay”, and went out to explore what difficulties males can be faced with when fitting a mesh avatar.

“I started getting these hints that I should improve my avatar,” Mr. Jay told me. “Especially females with mesh avatar shapes seemed to feel out of place if I went somewhere with them in my conventional shape. So I sought for a solution.” Mr. Jay’s girlfriend prospect directed him to “The Shops!”, a shopping experience for “The Mesh Project”. The Shops! is a one-stop-store to mesh up one’s avatar, with full departments for either gender.


Mr. Jay explained his shopping experience: “Obviously I wanted to get quickly up to speed with the mesh shape but the whole process took me about a week to complete.” He said that he had wanted to go the extra mile to get all features, so he got himself “the deluxe” level body and head. The body has 36 skin tone options, but as Mr. Jay fitted on the head, it appeared all white. “I hadn’t known I need to buy a skin for the head as well!” Having bought the skin caused further frustration, as he had chosen the “01” skin which is all white – so his problem seemed to have no solution. While he engaged the customer assistance to replace the “01” skin with a more conventional skin tone, he brooded over the sensibility of the whole endeavor. “I had spent in excess of 10 000 L for the makeover already, so I just had to forge ahead,” he lamented. He ended up buying a “15” skin tone skin for the head, and later, he received the “16” tone skin from The Shops! customer service to replace the “01” skin.



The last parts of the process involved applying a “retrofit fader” tattoo layer to the line separating the body from the neck. “Then it was up to finding the rest of the body parts to go with the mesh body,” Mr. Jay says and smirks. He ended up with a conventional hair from Dura Dura. “The hair base for the hair, again, is a tattoo layer that is not compatible with the face skin tattoo… so I needed to puff up the hair with the re-sizer and move it slightly upward to hide the piebald appearance that is a result of having no visible hair base.”



I returned to The Shops! with Mr. Jay to see what could be done about the process. The panels on the walls of The shops! describe a simplistic 1-2-3 process, but as was obvious with Mr. Jay, the whole ordeal of fitting a mesh avatar is not quite as straightforward. The shopping experience is conducted by use of a heads-up display (HUD) that takes care of your cash balance deducting the purchases until you need to top up the balance. The information that is necessary for purchases is on the panels and on the HUD, but it is not obvious for instance that you need to pay 1000 L for each skin tone option for the skin, when the deluxe body already has 36 skin tones built in. To complete your appearance, you need a set of eyebrows and a hair base as well, each at L 250.
I interviewed Ms. Diorprincess, a live helper / personal shopper at The Shops! on her perception of the mesh avatar market. She has soon worked a year at The Shops! and is well versed on the subject of male mesh avatars.



SLE: Female mesh avatars have been out there a long time already but it has come to my attention that the interest in male mesh avatars has risen in the last  few months. Am I correct?

Diorprincess: Well, yes, because the Male avatar is available just 6 months now, and we provide the only one that looks normal I guess.

SLE: As a personal shopper / helper, you must get a lot of questions from male shoppers. Can you relate to me what concerns the male shoppers have overall? What are the most glaring problems they run to adapting to the mesh avatar?

Diorprincess: The alpha HUD is giving problems at the moment. But they are working on an update. At start males are a bit disoriented, but I noticed the men are very clever.

SLE: When I talked with “Mr. Jay” he said he had a lot of problems with the "1-2-3" concept and didn't realize he had to buy a specific skin, etc. Are these typical problems men run into?

Diorprincess: Well some men don’t understand the concept at all, don't even look, just do and then don't understand what they are doing after all! The “1, 2, 3” concept is easy: 1. Get a body; 2: Get the head; 3: Get the clothes or style up. But most people don't even read [the instructions on the panels].

SLE: How do you see the mesh avatar market, and especially the ratio of female vs. male mesh avatar sales?

Diorprincess: Females spend much much more, also because we need more, like make up and clothes. Men are easy: most wear the same clothes every day. Females are looking good and expect her man to look good also. And the males want mesh too. Mesh is the future!

The final step was to put some weight on the avatar. The Shops! Beta avatars are fitted mesh, meaning they fit on the conventional avatar shapes. Therefore, sliders in the avatar appearance body editing menu can be used to change the shape. Jay fleshed out nicely with some body fat and widening the torso. The Shops! sell also shape styler packages, but these are optional if one knows how to use the sliders in the body edit menu. The head doesn’t seem to change with the edit sliders, though, so one is stuck with the Mesh Project supermodel head shape. As already has been quite prominently evident with how female mesh avatars carry themselves, the fitted mesh is compatible with “physics” of the avatar. With proper discretion, the use of physics on a fitted mesh body can make the avatar movement more fluid and realistic.

Fitting clothes on the mesh avatar is a whole other exercise. Mr. Jay was able to put on a mesh tuxedo by judicious selection of the alpha layers in the alpha editor HUD. “This could really become a problem down the line. Now I have no semi-formal or casual options!” Mr. Jay wailed, before he got the hang of the alpha HUD.



The whole concept of mesh avatars seems to extend the Second Life experience toward the Kurzweilian view of “The Singularity” where the real and the virtual mix effortlessly. The avatar styles may not yet be “real” or “realistic”, as the male shapes seem to be more idealistic Adonis-inspired demigods. The same of course may be said about the female shapes that obviously tend to accentuate the beauty ideals of the fashion and adult entertainment industries. Fully self-editable mesh avatars seem still to be a dream concept, perhaps reserved in the near future for premium purchase for designers. In any case, from Mr. Jay’s experience, it is advisable for any male avatar wishing to go full mesh, to explore the process using the “free” options available at The Shops! first. The decision to shell out over 10 000 L is not to be taken lightly, as it may be that with the resulting wardrobe makeover, the aggregated cost can go over anyone’s budget as the mesh requirement escalates. A further encumbrance may be the load on the computer and the network that mesh seems to demand from the hardware. When you get on the grid, it takes time for your avatar to rez properly, and some parts of it may render before your clothing. The shy guy should be aware of these sometimes embarrassing effects!


Ray Kurzweil on virtual worlds (1:00:50 to 1:01:25):
Trailer for “The Singularity is Near” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8XWXJDgbeP0


Monthly Art & Science Collaborations, Inc. (ASCI)- Let's Discuss Pluto! Meeting July 26th 10 am SLT

Pluto- image retrieved from www.imguniverse.net


About Art & Science Collaborations, Inc. (ASCI)

Many SL projects involve collaborating, and ASCI's mission includes fostering such artistic collaborations. ASCI hopes to provide a place for artists, builders, scripter and animators who are collaborating, or wish to collaborate, to meet and discuss their projects with entrepreneurs, educators, scientists and technologists who have projects they want to realize in SL. The larger mission of ASCI is nurturing the intersection of art, science, technology, and the humanities.

ASCI will be meeting in the Quat Gallery on the last Sunday of each month, at 10 am SLT.
Join the ASCI Group (it's free) to receive notices about our SL meetings.


Teleport Here:
http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Quat/131/93/54


Topics for discussion: July 26th 10 am SLT

Pluto!
http://www.space.com/29929-pluto-flyby-new-horizons-spacecraft.html
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Should we fear space aliens?
http://www.space.com/29999-stephen-hawking-intelligent-alien-life-danger.html
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Ancient Egyptian gods found on Rosetta Stone comet?
http://www.space.com/29980-rosetta-comet-67p-egyptian-gods-names.html
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If we have time:

Do we explore because we're human, or because we're animals?
http://www.space.com/29940-stephen-hawking-new-horizons-pluto-flyby.html
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Pentaquark discovered?
http://www.livescience.com/51557-new-pentaquark-particle-discovered.html
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Black hole emission?
http://www.space.com/29966-black-hole-bullseye-video.html
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Apollo 11 anniversary:
http://www.space.com/17411-apollo-11-moon-landing-explained-infographic.html

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We hope you can stop by to join the fun and share your Metaverse experiences, along with your virtual gaming, computer geek adventures, cyber art projects, and dorkbot stories. 

Saturday, July 25, 2015

Announcing Dragons Landing Grand Opening July 25th 12pm SLT


         

 **********Dragons Landing*********
       ★  Features ★
                               
          Shopping 
                                
            Lovers Park 
                              
               Beach Dance Club
                    Beach activities
                       Jest ski's and boat rezzers
 on the  Gulf waters of linden.
                            
              Table Games ( found by cafe )
                    
             Free Horse Rezzer Located about land.
            More coming!
   ***Rentals***
    Please See Agent to rent.
1. Apartments. 50 prims / 100l's weekly / furnished
( semi private )

2. Beach huts. 75 prims / 200L's
3. Lil cottages 200 prims / 450L's
4. Canopies 250 prims / 550L's
5 Maison Ville 300 prims / 650L's
6. Hill top  350 Prims / 750L's
 
     ☞    Yes there are a few rules to follow

1)Nudity in your housing rental ONLY, wear swim clothes or bikini / skimpy ok, no personal parts showing. ( Parent child Role play is permitted.) " NOT FOR SEX ROLE PLAY!!!"<-- this will get you Banned!

2) No Biting ( Soliciting of clan will get you banned)

3) No Pushing ( New comer sims , some bumping may occur)

4) No Soliciting

5) No Harassing others ( any kind of griefing will not be tolerated)

6) Hate crimes, bashing , prejudice , or griefing of any kind will not be tolerated. ZERO TOLERANCE! Cause for permanent Banding.

Down and Dirty Basics of Beginning Roleplay Clinic July 25th 9 am SLT


When:  July 25, 2015
Time:  9:00 AM SLT
Where: The Hardwood Family Home - Backyard

What:  Please join us for the first in a series of roleplay clinics! Anyone interested in discussing how to roleplay, learning more about styles of roleplay, sharing tips and tricks, or just improving your own roleplay are welcome!
The roleplay clinic is open to anyone.  Group membership is not required.
Clinic topic:  Down and Dirty Basics of Beginning Roleplay
THIS IS A REPEATING TOPIC FOR THOSE NEW TO THE CLINICS.
Brought to You By Graduate School of Roleplay and the Perverted Hardwood Family Hangout
For more information contact:  Slumber Garden


About  Perverted Hardwood Family Home and hangout
We hope you enjoy your visit here. Feel free explore the hangout as we are sure you will be pleased and if you would like to join our family, just click the sign near the landing point then click the link in local chat and join.
RULES:
1) No child play
2) No child avi's
3) No harassment
4 No weapons
5) NO Gangstas and Hoodlums
6) No griefers
7) No disturbing others that are in Role Play unless you are asked to participate with them
8) JUST BE PERVERTED AND HAVE FUN!

Information provided by SL Events 

Friday, July 24, 2015

EXCLUSIVE OFFER FROM KAHUNA RESORTS FOR SLE FANS!


KAHUNA RESORTS 20% OFF THRU JULY
ALL MEGA YACHT AND HOME RENTALS
DON'T WAIT! COME CHECK US OUT AND SEE FOR YOURSELF 

- SL'S PREMIER LUXURY RESORT - SURF - SAIL - FLY AND MORE!



ASK FOR WESTON LANE OR HANA FALLEN AND TELL THEM YOU SAW IT ON SLE!



Looking for a Photo Studio so you can take your own pictures? We found one that is Free to the Public!



 Here is a free  service supporting your creativity!  We offer  Backgrounds, Studios , Poses and Scenes, Props and more . Please check our Studio Gallery often, as we are always updating and adding new sets.  While you are here feel free to browse our selection of Fashion!
                                                               
                      http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Moonlight%20Sonata/129/115/27
                               


Thursday, July 23, 2015

10th Annual Hair Fair Ends on July 26th- A Portion of all sales go to Wigs for Kids

Image retrieved from www.hairfair.wordpress.com

According to Connecticut Children’s Medical Center, over 2 million children suffer from hair loss.  Causes vary from cancer treatments, ringworm and Alopecia areata; a condition in which the body’s immune system attacks the hair follicles preventing hair growth.

Hair Fair is a way for hair creators and the Second Life community to come together and raise awareness and money for Wigs for Kids.  For a decade, residents of SL have contributed thousands of dollars to help children live their lives and look like themselves. Last year, Hair Fair raised over 15,000 USD.  This year Hair Fair is looking to exceed that with your help. With only 3 days left, take some time to browse the hundreds of hairstyles from various creators and know that your makeover will make a difference to children in need.

Map Guide and Store SLURLs
More about Hair Fair 2015

Wednesday, July 22, 2015

WANT TO START A VIRTUAL BUSINESS? Debby Sharma reporting


The first thing we do when we enter the virtual worlds is find out ways to earn virtual currency. It doesn’t take us long to understand that to fulfil all our desires in a virtual setup, we would need an inflow of virtual currency. If we could make good friends and we like what we have and we could stick long enough, sooner or later, there is one more desire we all have, “Why not start a business?”
Few people start a trade ingame within a inworld, like Second Life has G&S System to trade goods, food, metal etc for Gorean Community. Few indulge in clothing line by either making original mesh items like Just Because and others re-texturing the mesh items adding prim clothing to make it unique like Heth Haute Couture. Few get into sale of estates like IrishGent of Seychelles Isles and others either get into re-renting the lands and skyboxes or designing the sim like Sera Bellic. Few make homes like Robert Galand of Galand Homes others get into making furniture like what’s next. The list of established businesses can get exhaustive. These big names of Second Life, inspire us to ask a simple question, “Why not me?”

Exactly, why not me? We too can start a business. We too can run a successful one. So what’s the next step? I asked three such entrepreneurs around the grid for their views and also the mistakes that we make when we indulge in a start up in a virtual world. Here are their replies.



 

Indea Vaher: Second Life is microcosm of our real world, and anything that is achievable in the real is obtainable in our virtual world.  Most residents want to try their hand at the business they’ve always dreamed of which can be opened with a click of a mouse. 
Sometimes we jump into these businesses based on our own passions, our fantasy of the dream job we wished we had in real life, the postal worker becomes an artist and opens their own gallery, the hardware store clerk becomes a big time club owner, and with a few clicks of a mouse, the retired building inspector is now a popular DJ.  People have found in Second Life that any business you want to start you can in a blink of eye, however what is often not done in the virtual world is a study of where your target audience is or if there is a demand for the commodity/services you have to offer.
Many jump into a venue without a business plan or revenue projections to ensure profitability and as a result fail.  However, for many of these businesses simply turn into social venues, and they justify the expense like a hobby doing something they enjoy and never get a return on their investment.
The most successful entrepreneurs in virtual worlds are those  who approach it in the same manner as it’s done in the real world, they establish that there is a demand for their creations, products or services. They have the necessary professional skills to create the product they offer, and for many it’s usually utilizing a skill they’ve obtained in real life.  They don’t think in terms of lindens but in actual currency, reconciling expenditures with incoming revenue.


The following is the conversation with IrishGent, owner of Seychelles Isles.


Debby Sharma: What are the few pointers that you would suggest a resident before they start a business?
IrishGent: Determine the business you want to start.  Research the basics using other like companies on SL. If you are selling products using Market Place, research (wiki) as a starting point on the setup of your account, TOS (Terms of Service), Copy Write Laws, etc. If you are interested in being a Land Lord, research other like estates on their land offerings and creating a brand. 
Debby Sharma: According to your experience, which has been the most difficult time while you started your start up?
IrishGent: Resource management and staffing.  SL is a volatile universe with peoples interest working on an estate mirroring the volatile culture of SL. Sitting in front of their computers people have a different level of commitment which to say the least is lacking.  There are a few exceptions to this rule which I have been very fortunate to have a staff that is dedicated and very supportive.  It took many employees to get to this point but I must say I am impressed with my current staff.  Patience is a must giving everyone their objectives and assignments.  A long leash is a required so that they may maintain a level of balance between work and play in SL.
Debby Sharma: Should a resident start a virtual business with a motive of earning or for a generic motive of fun and pleasure?
IrishGent: I believe both.  Balance is a requirement in SL and to be out of balance you will see a negative effect on both.  That is established early on when you formulate the mission and vision of your business.
Debby Sharma: What mistakes according to you, do you see most virtual business committing to?
IrishGent: The big mistake from my perspective is micro management and not establishing realistic goals.  Remember SL has seasonality with the number of on-line avis.  You have to plan your business to adjust to this seasonality thus not to overestimate earnings to offset expenses.


The following conversation, I had with Sera Bellic, owner of Lick Sim Designs.

Debby Sharma: What are the few pointers that you would suggest a resident before they start a business?
Sera Bellic: Take some time to explore SL and find what you are passionate about.
Debby Sharma: According to your experience, which has been the most difficult time while you started your start up?
Sera Bellic: I have tried many different businesses. I think finding the one I was passionate about was the most difficult. Surprisingly, it was right under my nose.
Debby Sharma: Should a resident start a virtual business with a motive of earning or for a generic motive of fun and pleasure?
Sera Bellic: I think all business should start as something you did or do for fun, just because you love doing it. Then grow it as a business.
Debby Sharma: What mistakes according to you, do you see most virtual business committing to?
Sera Bellic: Not honing their skill, jumping in before really understanding Second Life.


The above interviews might have already given you an idea. Here is a short list of pointers that might be helpful.

·         Idea
Have an idea of what you want to do. If you already have it to your liking, then start by looking at other existing businesses. If possible join them as a staff and learn. It is wrong to imitate a business idea, but it is not wrong to learn from an actual business. May be in future, you may develop an idea along the lines. May be while working, you may have a completely new idea. But, this experience would be useful.

·         Time
It is very important that you have time for such business. Remember, it is a virtual world; although, there are exceptions who have made real money with virtual currency. Still, a business has its clients and clients are the only ones who keep a business steady. To satisfy your client, it is important that you have enough time for them.

·         Research
Although, this is a virtual world, still there are loads of Intellectual Property laws that are prevalent in every country. Read them, be thorough. In my two years of writing career, I have witnessed big business names being sued for real cash. So, it is highly advisable, you must know the laws like the copy right laws etc.

·         Budget and Audience
Prepare your statements, estimates of expenditure and incomes. Like in any real life business, there might me a need of investment, but the amount needs to be justifiable. It is not possible to incur losses for long periods of time. In my 3 years of virtual existence, I have witnessed over 7 businesses closing down due to this. Plot a draft may be, but have something as your spinal cord for the business. Understand who your clients are. Have a list of them ready in your spreadsheets. Even if you started the business for fun, it still needs to raise enough revenue to sustain your dream for long term.

·         Team
No business will ever survive the test of time without a team. It is the most difficult aspect of virtual business. One person can do all the job of a business, virtual or real. Sooner or later, you need another hand and it won’t come free or easy. Hence, the above point is important. By team, it doesn’t mean that you hire many people in your staff. Have as many as required. Have serious, enthusiastic and passionate people who also share your dream. It will be difficult in the start. Sometimes, it takes more than a year to find the right one and sometimes not. With this we come to the last point

·         Patient and Passionate
Be Patient. No business is built in a day. Some of your friends might get lucky and some not. Don’t lose hope. Success will turn eventually. The only thing that will drive you on will be passion. If you were passionate in the first place when the idea immerged, recognition is bound to follow.

I hope these pointers were helpful. If some of my dear readers are wondering, why take advice from a writer, to them I say, it may be just over 3 years in-world, but it includes 9 times failure in virtual writing career and over a dozen failures in trying to set up a successful virtual business. The above pointers are few that I have gathered while learning. Writing did not happen by chance but by a choice. 

A Somber Look At The Trace Too

The Trace is a wonderful work by Kylie Jaxxon.  Kylie's way of creating beauty with subtle, simple creations, are beyond compare. The Trace is seasonal, and changes with the seasons,

Visit here.  http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/The%20Trace%20Too/128/128/0?title=The%20Trace%20Too


In 2014 she informed us all that she had leukaemia, and had to close the trace to take care of herself.  After several chemo sessions, and occasional waves to us on the SL feeds, she announced that her leukaemia was in remission, and that The Trace was returning!  We were all elated, and could not wait for it too open.

The Trace opened (now called The Trace Too) and we flooded in to see.



Sadly now we have not heard from Kylie.  Her SL account is gone as well as her blog, and other websites.  One of her last pictures called "Anchored and Gone"  is here on Flikr https://www.flickr.com/photos/76614164@N02/19044843900/in/dateposted/

We at the spaceport paid the sim's tier up to the 29th of August.



There will be fundraising events for tier at The Commune Utopia, with 14 DJ's on Thursday the 23rd of July.  http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Orga/20/88/29 and Lagrange Point Spaceport on Sunday the 26th, with a few hours of live music. http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Lagrange%20Point/128/128/0?title=Lagrange%20Point  More info on these events to follow.


Trinity Yazamoto informed me that she would hold an art auction at the Trace.  The exhibition should start around the 2nd of august and she’s accepting submissions of photographs or digital artwork featuring The Trace Too from now on. You can IM her in world (no notecards please).
This is also a call out to Kylie's friends to get involved.  If you love Kylie and the Trace please contact me!

We are going to try to keep the Sim open till September the 1st, so you can come to The Trace and remember.  Sadly after that The Trace Too must close so we can keep the Trace safe in our own memories.


So please do come out and visit the lovely Trace Too, and celebrate Kylie's Life with us!"


Tuesday, July 21, 2015

Shopping For Mesh - Tea Couturier reporting

Mesh…how did we ever survive without it I hear you ask?

As content creators are getting better, it has only made our choices even harder on what to buy and wear.

If you are not sure what is new out or even what is available, never fear here is my list of what I feel is hot for now. However, instead of featuring mesh clothing, I am going to feature mesh for your body, which I feel is becoming popular now.


RiRi Inspired mesh head


I think this is very clever as it looks so life like. If you have ever wanted to look like a famous person then here is your chance. This is a Rihanna inspired mesh head, intended for personal use, whether for avatar appearance or learning. This version of the head is non modifiable and only includes a makeup HUD, including 6 makeup types which I think is very good as it allows you change your look easily.
The content creator does other mesh heads also.
Priced at L$1499





Slink AvEnhance Hands Female – Casual and Slink

AvEnhance Hands Male – Relax

As we all know, Slink make excellent mesh hands and feet, so it would not be surprising to find it in my list of mesh body parts. You can find several female hands with different finger poses, but I picked this one as I felt it had more of a causal feel and look to it for any occasion, but you can purchase which ever you feel works for you.  This is the female hand and they also do male hands.

 Features:
Left and Right hand for mixing hand types.
Works with appliers for Skins, Nails, Gloves, Tattoos
Left and Right Gloves and Tattoo options
Priced L$450




  

Slink AvEnhance Feet Female Flat


These flat feet will only work with shoes made for Slink Flat Feet. I have picked these as I feel, to me,they look more natural when worn, as your feet are not always on tip toe. Again,  Slink have done an excellent job on these feet and has made my list for mesh body parts.

Price L$675




Slink Physique Mesh Body

This is not a "shape" or a "skin". It is a fitted mesh female body replacement for your SL avatar body. It will work with the included shapes OR your own shape!
You must have at least basic shaders and hardware skinning on for this body to work properly.
I am new to mesh bodies, so have chosen a creator who I know,  and I know there are quite a few stores in SL which create mesh bodies but, to begin with, I think this is a good starting point.
Price L$ 1250



These are just a few mesh body parts you can purchase in SL and I am sure if you are new to mesh body parts then you will have a lot of fun a little tip if a demo if offered purchase the demo first.




Happy Shopping!

GIZZA CREATIONS - GACHA


Embrace the warrior in you with the newly added GACHA items from GizzA.
A selection of separate items which together form a full outfit,
Fierce you will stand and face battle in purple, red or black. Collect the separate body armors, matching vests, boots and accessories like bracelets and leg straps with bag attached.
Main-store: 

Monday, July 20, 2015

Mackenzie's Mumblings: Have I Forgotton How To Have Fun? - Mackenzie Abbot Reporting


So, three years and a bit on Second Life and I’ve settled into a routine.  

When I first joined SL, I had no idea what I was doing or, indeed, what I was going to do.  Eventually I found my way and, like most single blokes, decided to explore the sex side first.  I drifted my way around various places, most of which were too full on for my virgin capabilities.  But, somehow, I found a nice little strip club and became friends with the dancers and staff, as well as the various patrons.  Soon, I was doing the horizontal pixel salsa with some of them.  Soon enough, I found DJing and began a whole new career, in a different circle of people, with different outlooks on life.  As my fan group expanded, I came across a BDSM club and began DJing and shagging my way around the staff and VIPs as before.  Eventually I found someone who was, I thought, just right for me and we started dating, eventually partnered and I settled down, away from temptation and all that came with it.

And that, gentle reader, is where I think it all started.

The freebird came home to roost and had his wings clipped.  DJing became a chore rather than pleasure and I ended up selling advertising for the fine publication you are now reading.  I stopped going to clubs and quickly became a frail beige creature with no immediate circle of friends and no inclination to do anything other than check to see which advertisers are due to renew and work out what needs doing at the SLE.  This is my own choice and I enjoy what I do, but it grinds a bit, you know? I became a little disillusioned with SL and quickly found out that I had aged well before my time.  I would rather sit and chat in a skybox somewhere or play table games than go to a club and throw shapes, either solo or with someone.

Mack and Alison, the SLE Ad Assistant.  (She wants me bad)
Photo: Mackenzie Abbot

I have strayed, I will throw my hands up to that.  I cheated twice and ended up having a child with a hostess at a club I used to work at.  It wasn’t something I was proud of but it was the danger, the thrill of maybe getting caught.  However, I never fully appreciated that if my partner ever found out, it would upset her immensely, and it did.  So I have kept away from temptation and buried myself in my work.

In other words, I’ve become boring.

Gone are the days when I could just head off to a club or a sim and just do my own (non-sexual) thing and just be Mack.  The Mackenzie Abbot of old is still in there somewhere, buried under a few layers of elasticated waisted nylon.  So how do I get out of the “drip dry shirt” situation I’m in now and start becoming more “ready to wear”?  I’ve no idea, but you can see my current frame of mind.  I’m comparing myself to shirts, for crying out loud!
Mack has got to the stage of being like an old sheepdog.  The eyes and bowels aren’t what they used to be; he’s maybe a bit whiffy.  A faithful old friend.  Yet, despite all that, you couldn’t shoot him in the face; you just couldn’t.  You just watch him plodding around and getting on with life.  You feel like you should do something yet you can’t.

Billy No Mates
Photo: Mackenzie Abbot

Maybe I just need to take time out and rediscover what it means to be Mackenzie Abbot again.  Obviously, there couldn’t be sex involved as that’s a big no-no.  But that doesn’t mean I can’t maybe just take myself off to a club or venue and take it all in.  I don’t have to have company all the time; alone time is good too.  Although, sometimes it’s nice to share your down time with someone.  Seeing as, at time of writing, my partner works nights and sleeps during the day, it’s almost never her; so I have to see if my friends have some downtime that they are willing to share with me.  If they do, great!  If not, I’m scuppered and the usual course of action is to log off and do something else, like watch porn.  Trust me, porn solves everything!  Fap Fap! Hooray!  (Sorry!)

The author, having finally lost his mind
Photo: thedistractionnetwork.com

So, before I too have to go and work for the man (job starts in 8 days at time of writing), I’ve decided to try and reignite my interest in SL by trying things I hadn’t done before.  Something that might work really well, or fall flat on its face.

But that, dear reader, is for another day.



Friday, July 17, 2015

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Thursday, July 16, 2015

Time Traveling Through Your Playlist by Linda Lauren





I had a beauty day recently, and my first stop was the hair salon for a splash of fresh color. I usually do this on my day off and I elect the entire day to attend to personal grooming, necessities and errands. The owner of the salon usually has on a favorite station and it happens to be one that I like, too. So the experience of sitting and waiting in the chair while he works becomes an experience in memory recall.

I love music. It stirs emotion and speaks directly to the spirit in ways that range from subtle to empowering. It is a colorful array of sound created through inspiration that we draw upon in our everyday life. Music can bring us down or pick us up. It can remember scenes of the past while creating new ones for the future. Often, we move toward music to embrace awareness and healing.

Sitting in the salon chair listening to music from my teenage years brought forth a flood of emotion and nostalgia that ultimately made me smile. I asked myself the question: what if I created a playlist for the specific purpose of drawing on memories I wanted to fondly recall? Would it be beneficial to my body, mind and spirit? I decided to try it and I garnished surprising results. My mood improved and the time spent in the salon (which is usually over an hour) felt like it was the shortest ever. When I returned home I created my own playlist and I recommend that you give it a try. Here is a way to get started.
  1.  Pick a time of your life that holds the fondest memories.
  2.  Research the songs from that decade and choose the ones that speak happiest to you.
  3.  Create a playlist and loop it to play throughout the day in the order you feel fits how you want to feel.
  4.  Journal or log what surfaces for you.
Granted, you may come away with some sad feelings, but the happy ones will be the strongest, so make sure to keep your focus on the positive. Try it for a few days and see how you feel afterward.

Enjoy, and happy time traveling through your playlist!

Originally published on July 9, 2015 on Medium.com 


 
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